Winning isn't some sort of magical inborn gift. It's hard work, perseverance,sweat and stamina for success. All those who are successful don't depend on luck but hard work. When they fail they don't blame their fate but they use their failure to their own advantage. They see it's as opportunities,and some see failure as one of steps to success. There is no success without steps and there is no success without failure and that why success and failure go hand in hand.
https://thepowersblogging.com/2020/10/30/how-winners-separate-themselves-from-losers/
Losers are always pessimistics,they see problems as a failure instead of a challenge and that is why they fail, they give up, and then blame their fate.
https://thepowersblogging.com/2020/09/30/then-you-will-turn-aroundand-you-will-be-happy-with-yourself/
We should be like be like successful people who see problems as a challenge and work on those same challenges to make them successful.